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spiegol · Joined: 02 Aug 2006 Posts: 119

I know I probably shouldn't be saying this but I have a huge crush on my history teacher. I think I'm in love. I just act all giggly when he comes around. I am having a hard time concentrating on my studies. I don't think it's wrong to have a crush. Do you? You got a secret crush?

LittleBee · Joined: 21 Oct 2006 Posts: 25

Alright, first thing to realize is that student teacher relationships are illegal. I don't think that it is all that bad for you to have a crush on your history teacher, but...... Well this is hard to respond to. I think that it is important to realize that when you get giggly around him, he probably knows that you like him. I think it is healthy to have crushes but crushes on teachers are not the best type. He is a man and you are just a girl, his student. He is supposed to be a mentor, someone you look up to like a father figure....

I think that it is natural to have a crush on a teacher as long as it stays just that and nothing more. I can't say that I ever had a crush on a teacher. I did have friends who had crushes on teachers but I could not see what they saw in them. lol.....
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mystery Girl · Joined: 14 Oct 2006 Posts: 82

Oh! No! That is a no no spiegol. I have never had a crush on any of my teachers. You are treading on dangerous ground.

MoMo · Joined: 18 Aug 2006 Posts: 103

It's alright to have a crush. But, it shouldn't go any further than a harmless crush.

prettyangelina · Joined: 22 Aug 2006 Posts: 86

Yes Spiegol, you should really listen to LittleBee. Just make sure this stays a harmless crush and nothing more

Avian · Joined: 21 Aug 2006 Posts: 82

A harmless crush is no big deal. Just don't act on it, that won't end well. There are a few female teachers at my school who I wouldn't mind being with.

spiegol · Joined: 02 Aug 2006 Posts: 119

Thanks all for the advice. I really didn't think it was that big of a deal.